About me and this site

I am Marc Cecil, the milk man—a psychologist, psychotherapist, writer, husband, father, and grandfather who has always felt different. Much of my life has been spent as a witness to those who have been lost in the darkness, searching for a way back home. For many of us—including myself—this journey began in childhood.

In my work, I have had the privilege of learning from my clients—often more than they have learned from me. This blog is a collection of images, stories, and poetic musings that reflect the struggles and transformations we have faced together. I have shared some of my stories with other therapists and clients to help them connect more deeply to their hearts—knowing they are not alone.

The words I share here are part of the light of invisibility that has grown out of our healing journey. My hope is that these reflections inspire you to find the light in your own heart, which help you to know that you are not invisible. This blog is a testament to our capacity for transformation, healing, and growth, even in the wake of complex trauma and loss—not just for ourselves but for everyone we touch.

Whether you are a client, a therapist, someone who supports those connected to this work, or simply curious about the mysteries of life, you are welcome here. If something you read resonates with you, I would love to read your thoughts. To protect confidentiality and other professional boundaries, comments are not enabled, but you are welcome to reach out to me directly at mcecilvt@aol.com.

Please know that within this space, I am not offering therapy or consultation. However, if you give me permission, I may integrate your words into future writings—anonymously and with great care.

My deepest hope is that The Light of Invisibility grows beyond this blog into a community of shared understanding where our differences bring us closer together and remind us of the power we all have inside, giving us new meaning as a participant in life as well as a witness.

Let the light burn brightly, bringing us home to the people we were always meant to be!

Dr. Cecil delivers his milk worldwide from the shores of Lake Bomoseen, Vermont. He is a Licensed Psychologist, Certified AEDP Supervisor and Therapist, Certified EMDR Consultant and Therapist, and Senior CSRT Clinician-Consultant, besides being a milk man.